What do you do in life? Choose a good, boring, reliable job or choose your dreams? There is no choice really although it is good to have both. Looking For: we see a woman we'd like to meet, we become nervous (for reasons we can't explain logically), we feel FEAR, we make all kinds of negative MENTAL IMAGES, and we finally just decide that it isn't worth it... so we just walk away. But, isn't this CRAZY behavior?