I'd be utterly bored by someone who's just a pretty face or hot body -- though i don't mind looking and flirting! I'm more turned on by an equally smart and funny mate, someone who challenges my mind and makes me laugh. I look to talk, so I need a good listener who's open to playful and eccentric ideas about love. I AM ALLERGIC TO MARRIAGE. As for the concept of life, I so agree with how Mother Tereza quated it: "Life is an opportunity, benefit from it. Life is a beauty, admire it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, complete it. Life is a game, play it. Life is a promise, fulfill it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a song, sing it. Life is a struggle, accept it. Life is a tragedy, confront it. Life is an adventure, dare it. Life is luck, make it. Life is life, fight for it!" Mind you, I said I agree with all of it, did not say I’m perfect to face it all! Hope there’s no need though to meet some of the situations such as the tragedy mentioned above; drama and me don’t get along very well. Hell I’d rather go for a good laugh; and that because of the simple reason that after all, life is too short!....and I want to enjoy it. Looking For: I'd like to visualize an intelligent and witty fella. With good sense of humor, sometimes even audacious. A small addition here...he should have a clue about dancing. Someone who knows how to show affection and share good love. The less jelousy shown the better works for me. If all these things are incased in a charming figure, I wouldn't mind (wink)!