After perusing this site, viewing the numerous headlines, the ad’s, the sale pitch, the beautiful blond, the muscular hunk, the skinny dude that shouldn’t have posed in his beach wear, etc. etc., a pattern begins to emerge. Some looking for a good ole time, some desperately seeking a soul mate, some just curious- all in hopes to find that special person that will make everything perfect! Really? Seriously? I’ve learned many lessons in life, primarily you have to be happy yourself, and not settle for anything less—No drama, no yelling, screaming, jealous scenes-- no drunken bar nights! I’m comfortable in my life. I’m not looking for Prince Charming to come riding in his white horse to slay the dragon. I’ve realized that many of those claiming to be the Prince, become the dragon! A good, honest person should be easy to find? Right? I’m a down to earth person. I have a wicked sarcastic sense of humor. I’m compassionate and honest. I'm a history buff, I love to read, and I know how to have a good time also. I’m hoping to find someone who shares the same outlook, zest and hope in life that I have. I’ve reached a point in my life, that there is no reason to settle for less—looks aren’t the driving force in the relationship-it’s the person and their integrity. I’ve had my good days, and bad. I’m here hoping to meet a good person, and who knows, maybe that special person to grow old with. Dragons need not apply ;-)