It may be a cliché but all you can do to attract a partner is to be yourself. Girls and women are generally looking for someone who can make them laugh, are interested in what they have to say, and respect their opinions. For women, it's also nice to feel valued and appreciated by their partner, for the way they look and the things they do. It's good if you have things in common, but it's fine to disagree on other matters too, as life would be boring if everyone liked the same things! Plus, if you have some similar interests, and some different ones, you can introduce your partner to new and exciting things to keep the relationship fresh. One thing that is definitely not appealing to women, though, is a man who is unsure of who he is and what he likes. If you try to change who you are to attract a partner, women will pick up on it immediately, and chances are, they'll walk away. Show a genuine interest, a genuine passion and a genuine character, and you'll be in the dating game in no time