I am a ambitious woman that takes self-gratification in achieving my goals in life. I am looking for a man that is the same. I am proud of my heritage but I don't believe a man should be put on the pedestal as our culture does. I believe in sharing the pedestal. I am very direct when I speak...I say what I mean and mean what I say. Many people think im too blunt. I have a easy going, open, personality and seem to get along with who ever I meet. It's all in about your intellect for me. If your not intelligent and can't stimulate my mind its most likely not going to work.